The Perfect "Will You Be My Bridesmaid?" Proposal Guide

Congratulations! If you’re reading this it’s likely you’re about to enter one of the most exciting phases of your life. Welcome Bride-to-be to the wedding planning club. You want the moment of asking your bridesmaid to be memorable and with our personalised ‘Will you be my bridesmaid?’ candle, you can make it personal too.

Choosing your bridesmaids is one of the most important decisions you’ll make. They are your chosen family and your friends who have been there for you through all your ups and downs, before you found ‘the one’ and will continue to be there for you and your soon-to-be husband. 

In this guide, we will explore how to ask your bridesmaids in the most memorable way. 

Choosing your ‘Will you be my Bridesmaid’ Gift

Asking some of your closest friends to be your bridesmaids is a heartfelt invitation to one of the most important days of your life. Surprising them with a unique gift that adds suspense makes asking them even more exciting. With our ‘Will you be my bridesmaid’ personalised candles, you can add a heartfelt message or simply their name. They won’t know what’s inside the luxurious gift box until they lift the lid and take out their candle, so you will truly surprise them. 

When should you ask your bridesmaids? 

Honestly, the sooner the better! This is because it gives you time to plan with them and also gives you plenty of time to work out your final ‘look’ that you want for your wedding party. It also gives them time to save for their dresses or if you are treading them, it gives you time to save and budget. 

How to ask your bridesmaids

You want to mark this special occasion! If your bridesmaids are all fairly local, why not organise a get together where you can make some dinner, have some wine and present the gifts to them all together? It’s a way for you to have a small celebration with your favourite people!

If they are further away or you can’t get them all together in the same place, this is where video calls come in to their own! It’s still personal and you get to see their reaction, which is usually, priceless!

You can capture their reactions in a video form that you can compile together to make into a ‘Will you be my bridesmaid?’ memory or just let the memories live in your mind forever. 

Add a personalised note

To make it even more personal, with your ‘Will you be my bridesmaid?’ personalised candle, add a gift note. We will handwrite this for you and place it into your gift box, so when your bridesmaid opens it, there will be a handwritten note on top, from you before they see their candle. 

Enjoy the moment!

Lastly, and most importantly, enjoy the moment! This is such a special time in your life and you are sharing this with the people most special to you.

Ready to choose your perfect ‘Will you be my bridesmaid?’ personalised candle? Choose yours here.